Writer / Consciousness Explorer/ Feline Advocate
Who I am
Hello, I'm Jasmine Sterling
I research love.
When Harley passed, my heart cracked open, and so did my understanding of love. What he’s shown me is that love isn’t bound by physical form, but lives within a field that continues beyond it. And the field itself will use any means available to awaken us to this deeper truth. For me, that awakening came through the trust, presence, and devotion I shared with my cats, especially the one who never let a silly little thing like death stand in the way of our quantum love bond. Harley has guided me toward one simple realization: we are infinitely loved. We are love itself.
Love Researcher
Studying enduring relationships—including continuing bonds—and the ways love continues beyond physical form.
Author
Translating those discoveries into books, essays, stories, and field notes.
Student of Cats
My greatest teachers have always had whiskers.
Love Is Home
The Soul Braids Architecture
A Soul Braid is love woven through relationship. Let me explain…
For much of my life, I thought I was exploring consciousness. Looking back, I’ve come to recognize that I was really exploring the relational nature of life itself. Like most people, I believed I was searching for love. What I eventually came to understand was something far more fundamental.
I was searching for home. And life has an extraordinary way of meeting us where our hearts are most open. For me, that doorway was always cats. For someone else, it may be a child, a lifelong partner, a dear friend, the natural world, a calling, or a season of profound grief and loss. The doorway is different, but the invitation is the same. Because beneath every longing, every heartbreak, and every search is something even more fundamental—the longing to remember who we truly are. And when we do… we remember what home feels like.
Love is home. Relationship is the doorway. Presence, trust, and devotion keep the doorway open. And if love is both the path and the destination, the question is no longer where do we find it? The question becomes: How do we cultivate it?
Over years of observation, I’ve come to recognize three enduring conditions through which love deepens:
Presence is wholehearted availability.
Trust is knowing you’re choosing love—and that love is choosing you.
Devotion is sustained loving attention.
Together, they cultivate the conditions through which love grows, relationships deepen, and home becomes something we no longer seek, but recognize. I didn’t discover these principles in a philosophy book. I recognized them by living them, by paying attention to what made love expand. What made it last.
Through a lifetime of loving cats—and especially through my relationship with Harley—I came to understand that genuine love is not diminished when time, space, or physical form changes. My relationship with Harley continues to unfold through dreams, synchronicities, inner knowing, and moments of unmistakable recognition.
After he passed, I came to understand something even more surprising… Harley became the doorway through which I remembered home. Devotion keeps that doorway open. The relationship changes, but the love we cultivate continues to transform who we are.
Love itself has an extraordinary way of finding where our hearts are most open, gently leading us back to the place we’ve been searching for all along. Everything I write is an exploration of that discovery.
My wish is to offer a language for what your own deepest relationships may already be trying to show you—and to share the remarkable ways that journey has unfolded through mine.
Life has an incredible way of meeting us where our hearts are most open.
How The Books Came Through
When I started writing Cat Planet I envisioned it as a sequel to LittleLou Becomes the Moon—a children’s book that arrived fully formed in 24 hours, two years after Mia passed. A gift. A download. A teaching I didn’t write so much as receive. I wanted to offer an extension of that world to the kids who grew up with LittleLou—a story about never-ending love—to those ready to understand its multidimensional truth. Then within those 2 weeks Harley passed. And absolutely everything shifted. Ca Planet began writing itself. Lexy, me as the protagonist was suddenly in Egypt. She discovered a tunnel system and a portal to another world. My book became a living map. Scenes I’d written months earlier came true in real life. A little bird that visited me every morning became a character in the story. Months later ‘Fuego’ showed up in real life, a baby bird I found on a sidewalk in front of a mexican restaurant with the anme Fuego in it, , the reason I called it Fuego—exactly as written. Later I stumbled upon an article and the discovery of underground tunnels being discovered under the Giza pyramid where the story takes place. The story knew before I did. Shortly after, the oracle deck came through. Effortlessly. Not as something I designed, but as something I documented. Because by then, I understood: the Fab 4 weren’t just my cats. They were archetypes. Teachers. Frequencies of love made feline.
My life is creating our Story.
The Feline Council
Channel your inner cat.
Each of these extraordinary souls revealed a different facet of love, helping me recognize the principles that now shape the Soul Braids framework. Over time, I realized they weren’t simply beloved companions.
Through Harley, I came to understand devotion as a path to eternal love and self. Through Mia, I discovered joy as the frequency of being. Through MissC, I experienced sovereign soul power. Through Ebon, I saw true selfless service to humanity.
Each had become an archetype. Those living lessons eventually became the archetypes within the Harley Speaks Oracle—a deck created to help others recognize the timeless wisdom our relationships quietly teach us.
Click on each cat below to discover their story, or explore the Oracle to meet the archetypes they inspired.
HARLEY
HARLEY — The Remembering Heart
Harley continues to reveal that true love is not bound by time, space, or physical form. His unwavering devotion reminds me what unconditional love really is. He is the doorway through which I remember home.
Read Harley's full story
MIA
MIA — The Joyful
Mia continues to remind me that joy is one of love's purest expressions. Through her unforgettable dream visit, she revealed a joy so complete it changed my reality. She reminds me that joy is what love feels like when it's free.
Read Mia's full story
MISSC
MISSC — The Mirror
MissC continues to reveal that authenticity begins with the courage to stop apologizing for who you are. Her unwavering knowingness reminds me that our truest voice doesn't need permission—it simply needs to be lived.
Read MissC's full story
EBON
EBON — The Sacred Servant
Ebon reveals how love's expression is often selfless. His extraordinary courage, and willingness to place love above suffering continue to shape my heart's work. He also reminds me that the deepest bonds don't need to be loud to be indelible.
Read Ebon's full story
MaggieMay —
Love, Still Arriving
I thought Harley had taught me everything there was to know about love… then MaggieMay walked through my door.
She reminded me that love never asks us to replace what we’ve lost. It simply asks whether our hearts are still willing to open. She didn’t come to take Harley’s place. She came to reveal that love had never stopped arriving.
Every day, MaggieMay reminds me that relationships continue to transform us, that new doorways can open without closing the old ones, and that every deeply loved companion leaves us more capable of love than before.
Her arrival was the grandest, most synchronized, and magical unfolding I’ve ever witnessed—and it continues to this day. She reminds me that home is always finding new ways to arrive.
Read how MaggieMay met Rod Stewart…
